Exciting news!!! My son was discharged from the NICU this weekend and is now home with his family. Its crazy how something so simple as having my whole family under the same roof has been all thats been on my mind for awhile. It really does come down to the simple things in life.
Brotherhood Coaching Live Audio continues to be well received by you, the listeners, and so I thank you for listening to these daily journal entries that I broadcast out to the public.
I give you the Week In Review:
MondayComplaining comes from stress, the stress is from anxiety over a situation you have no control over. If you have no control then why stress and why complain?”
You are going to suck at first
You will be a little better the next time
Keep at it.
The more you do something the better you will get at it.
Everything takes progression
We all want the same thing
Whether it’s success, happiness, or love.
Imagine the possibility that if you don’t have them, it’s because you aren’t using the right tools.
Learn more to know the best tool to use
The principles we have guide our decisions we make.
Each of us have our own that we default to.
The problem arises when you judge me on your principles or I judge you on based on mine.
We are not playing by the same rules.
So we should be doing things a little bit differently.
The results you say you want are on the other side of the work you need to do.
We get frustrated when we do not see results.
Since the results we are not seeing come from the work we are not doing, why get frustrated?
Less talking and more doing
Is the start to your happiness.
Experience comes from failures
Failures come from lack of experience.
Most things I do for the first time do not work out as well as I had hoped.
This is a normal trend that we tend to forget.
When babies first walk, what happens? They fall and get back up until they finally get the hang of walking. They don’t quit and just crawl the rest do their lives.
So when you are doing something new, don’t give up after a few failed attempts. Regroup and reengage.
Gain some experience by practicing this new skill.
It’s only a failure when you don’t learn anything from it.
Some times we have to work harder to get the results that come easier for others
You never know the challenges people have
Taking a judger mindset will lead down the wrong path
We don’t know others stories and they don’t know ours
Timing will never be perfect
You’ll never feel more like doing something
The only way to get things done that you want is to do them.
Discipline is the missing ingredient for most
When we don’t feel like doing something is when you actually need to do it